Hello again! 4 months since the last time I wrote eh.
I know I'm not the most faithful writer here, but I do keep thinking of writing down my thoughts.
Once I was talking to a friend, months ago, we were discussing about life, about passion. She is a friend of mine back in uni, she is a fashionista, I am clearly not, but I'm into public speaking and motivational speech. She loves to dress up, she pays attention to how she looks, I love to have some deep discussion, exchanging thoughts, I pay attention to what I and the people said.
The discussion went along into the current reality of living in the digital era. We were thinking of what we can do to wed this passion and the current reality. I suggested her to have a fashion blog and she suggested me to have a life sharing account, either verbal or written.
Anyway, I'm not saying that's what I'm finally doing or not doing. What I'm trying to share here is, how important it is to speak up about what you personally deep down want to do for your life.
It's easy for you to say so, huh Vita? You aren't even doing what you want to do right now.
Yes I am not, but I will. I am progressing. It will be a whole different story of mine and yours. I might take longer or sooner. But, the point is I'm progressing. Progressing closer into what I dream I will be.
Talking about the progress, it takes a simple step yet hard to do. Trusting your own self. You oughta do what you wanna do.
Even though the world against you, you oughta do what you wanna do.
Try to bring yourself in your future life regretting your decision of following others' suggestion rather than following your own gut. Who to blame? The people who suggested so? Of course not, you had the power to say no yet you said yes to their suggestions. You will be the only person to be blame on. The milk already spilled.
Be the person that your future will thank you to.
I found this video entitled "Not every girl dreams of being a little princess." It's a sweet video of 10 years old girl (now she's 12 or 13) who does what she wanna do.
I'm in love with this video. It's beautiful to see if everyone can be this supportive as her parents do. It reminds me of my own parents.
I had a lot of discussion with my parents about life. It's rarely for me to hear them demanding me over something that will be my future.
I always remember what my dad said to me, "as long as it is good and you love it, do it, I will always support you," being supportive, my mom said "never waste any opportunities, just do it." I'm super blessed to have such parents.
